Friday, May 21, 2021

Dance Showcase

Have I mentioned it's been a long pandemic? So long that we bit the bullet and put Rebekah in a class. Outside. Where the virus can get to her. But we weighed sanity with the possibility of exposure and it came out on top. 

I made the mistake of telling the ice skating coach that we were moving and I wanted to get in as many lessons as we possibly could. That was the last I was able to speak with her. I assume she didn't see Rebekah as worth her investment now that we were moving. 

So I spoke to a friend and we eventually got her into a tap class (half way through the class) with her buddy Adelaide. The teacher spoke about a low key showcase but I quickly warned her about Rebekah's over abundance of anxiety. The teacher assured me there was no pressure. 

But Rebekah was excited and determined. I credit the teacher, the size of the class, limited venue because of Covid, and her friend Adelaide. 

I still wasn't quite certain it would happen, but we got this far. 

 

I was very camera heavy. 


She was heading to sit with us but her teacher and crew got her up front. Go them. 


Such a brave cutie! 


Eventually it was time for the dance. 


I was still somewhat concerned....


But she did it! 


I think she did fantastic! Considering the other two girls had twice as long in the class, she kept up very well. So proud! And yes, I cried. 


Love this! 

Friday, May 14, 2021

Mother's Day

First we celebrated grammy. And what do you give the woman who gives everything and has everything?
 

Crafts to do with Rebekah! 


The next day I was celebrated. I got new slippers and a bike basket. I'm really looking forward to riding my bike more. Pendleton is such a small town I think I'll be able to do that, especially with a removable basket! 


Next, I forced a picture with the little girl who made me a mom. 


We had a beautiful sacrament meeting. When we got home Don made a frozen lasagna and some asparagus - which Rebekah mistakenly referred to ap-a-grass. Love it. I was the only ap-a-grass partaker which was fine by me. 


Rebekah found this heart shaped rice crispy for me at her breakfast and forgot to give it to me in the morning. But she really wanted me to have it. 


Next Don made a carrot cake. By hand. Hand shredded carrots. Rebekah helped. 


He said it was quite a lot of work and stress, but it turned out great. 


A very fine mother's day indeed. 

Monday, May 10, 2021

Preparing for the Big Move

So far we are still on track to move June 4th. Since that leaves us about a month without a house we have brainstormed several ideas. The following is one. We would swing by Texas to see Michael, then up past the Grand Canyon on the way to Spencer's. Then up to Salt Lake to see mom, Joseph, Daniel and crew, and Kayla and crew. Then we'd possibly talk Kayla and crew to come up to Mount Rushmore with us. Then we would head back through West Branch to see where Hoover was born, Nauvoo to see some church sites and then home. 63 hours, 4091 miles. Have to admit it sounds a bit daunting. However, I got on board long enough to tell my mom only to hear about the lack of truckers means a lack of gas which means we could get stranded in New Mexico and die a meaningless death. But I still think it's a possibility. 


But back in Indiana, we have work to do. Apparently we are trying to fit our entire house into mom's house for the month of June. Mom's willing and pretty creative so we are using her shed as well. Rebekah is extremely happy because it means she gets to drive the tractor. 


Between trips from the garage to the shed I got out the camera. 




Rebekah wanted one more with the tractor.


Okay, maybe two more.


And a video:


Don and mom think it will all fit. I'm slightly concerned. However, my mantra for the new few months is: "It's FINE. Everything's FINE...." so basically we're good!

Sunday, May 9, 2021

April Books

 

While I believe a good portion of what he is preaching in this book, I disagree with the way he presents it. I'm overly frustrated with the "I'm right and everyone else are idiots" philosophy. 


Fictional account of a life in a small town. She's a good author and I liked her twist at the end. Not highly recommendable but it was good. 


Middle grade fiction about a child who has a mom with a severe brain injury. Someone said it was like reading To Kill A Mockingbird. It wasn't. Not even sure I thought it was worth the time spent. 


This was work. So very long. I ended up having to get in line again to finish the last 10 hours. Very worth while account of Washington though. My new favorite although I've only read one other. Chernow is a pretty good go to as far as historical authors are concerned.  


Junior fiction told from the voice of a Russian horse about his journey with explorers to the South Pole. I had high hopes and it had good moments but I didn't like the overall story or the ending.  


Fiction - I suppose it could be "historical fiction" - about two families from Ireland, one gentry one servants. As far as fiction goes this was a good read and would be recommendable. Looks like there are at least three of these. Not sure I'm motivated to read more but if I ever decide to read a series it could be this. 

This middle grade fiction was awesome! Well worth the read. Covers bullying, middle school sociality, and a whole bunch of other issues. Nicely done. I loved that the story he was writing parallels his life and what he discovers in the end - so extremely insightful! Kids need more like this. 


Was looking for something less intense / lighter so I chose this one. Maybe it was less intense but it definitely was not lighter. Spoiler alert - the woman's husband beat her severely. All - the - freakin' - time. In Bill Bryson's book, A Walk in the Woods, he refers to her as being eccentric and somewhat empty headed. I disagree. I think she walked to be alone and get away from life. It was her way of running away. Another testament to know about a persons story before jumping to conclusions. I think it was Fredrik Backman in Anxious People that stated everyone is the star of their own show and therefore make decisions that make perfect sense in their own mind while not making sense to us as we walk around looking down at our phones with earphones in our ear ignoring life in general.


This is the author of Stay and Leaving Blythe River, the first being fantastic, the second okay. I had hopes for this but it was not as enjoyable and I would not recommend. It wasn't really bad per se and had a semi interesting plot but just not worth it in my eyes. I ended up returning the rest of her books I had checked out. There is one more she recently wrote that I may end up reading but I'll let you know. 


Interesting historical fiction for middle graders. The girl gets kidnapped so maybe not for younger middle graders, but it's a fascinating look about disabilities and how we put limits on people when they are truly much more. There is also a lot about race, class, and acceptance. Highly recommendable. 


This. Wow. Extremely worth while but not an easy read (subject matter, also foul language and broken English). Also not an easy audio book because of the way the author writes as the sparsely educated main character. It's incredible that these things happen in our day. One would think maybe 50 years ago or something but no. This is set 2013 - 2016. The girl has so much insight and so many desires. It is well worth the difficult read.


My first book about the Kennedys. I learned a lot about both Robert and John. The book was well written and interesting however I felt it was pretty bias; but then again most books written by family about family are pretty bias. But most authors sway one way or another.


I had a hard time with this one. It's an interesting story and as long as you don't take it too literally it reads well. But the premise: a boy runs away from home to live on his grandfather's land in the mountains. I also had a hard time with him taking a baby hawk from her mother's nest to train as his own. At the end the family comes to him and says if he won't come home, we'll go to him, and decide to build a home in the mountains. Again, fine and all as long as you read it as fantasy / fiction. 


I started out not liking this book, even felt I knew where it was going and wasn't quite interested in going there so I put it aside and read other things. Recently I had trouble sleeping again so I gave this one another go. Glad I did for it turns out way different than I thought. It's got some great insights and good moments; however it is "Christian" literature, which I struggle with sometimes. It's not tremendously preachy but there are a few over the top moments. And the ending was a bit much, but still overall good.


I didn't even know this person existed and yet she did so much for science and for basic womanhood - (1647-1717). It's also a beautiful book. Well worth the read. 


It's a children's picture book with a great (true) story. She's from Venezuela and had to leave with her family because of the revolution. Then she came to the US where the Civil War was going on. Music helped her show love and helped people find comfort. Recommendable. 


A graphic novel about a girl and her sibling who has a degenerative disease. It's also about Dia de los Muertos and how the girls handle death and so forth. It was okay but nothing I'd recommend. 

Wednesday, May 5, 2021

Pending

So it finally happened: we have a pending offer. It's still early and a lot has to fall into place but I have high hopes. 

And it's ironic that the people who saw the house when I was unable to do my major pre-showing cleaning are the ones that gave an offer. Here I've been thinking about the phrase "after all you can do" meaning I work my tail off and the Lord will magnify my efforts, when it's really sometimes you can't do the crazy amounts that you think you need to do and the Lord will still make sure everything will be okay. I give much credit to my mother in law and Rebekah.


I also give credit to this sign. Apparently there's been much made out of the fact that we don't have a designated TV space in the living room. So Don made a little sticky note sign and stuck it to my piano. I figure if you're going to do it, well, go big or go home. 


And so, if all goes well, our days in the Columbus house are numbered. I do love this house. Even with all the problems, struggles, and quirks. 


I screenshot the following pictures from the realtor website. Just so we can always remember. 

This makes our kitchen look really long. I won't lie, it is really long - but this makes it look REALLY long. 


Living room. I loved the arch, and I love the ceiling treatment. 


Also love the window.


Another view of the kitchen. Those cabinets though! They have spoiled me for all future cabinets. 


Ou wash room / mud room / storage room, etc. 


Spare bath. One of the things I dislike about this room is how small the sink area is. Someday Rebekah is going to want counter space. This house doesn't offer that. 


Master. What a ceiling. You can vaguely see the road lights behind the first trey. That's a rather cool ambiance thing and will be missed. 



Master bathroom. I thought I'd love the tiles. But turns out I hate cleaning grout lines. I still love the lack of shower door though. I may never go back. Those things are awful to clean. 



3rd bedroom. Love the window, love the ceiling vault. 


Rebekah's bedroom. Aww... sweet Olaf will be always remembered. I had to take everything else away and apparently forgot Olaf and her blanket. Mistakes are good sometimes, right?


The office / formal dinning area. Still impressed that it cleaned up so well. 


Makes me never want to get the other stuff back out. 


Our view:


Back of the house.



I decided to put both houses side by side for future reference. They do look quite a bit alike, don't they?


I've had my concerns about the new house. However, when I get concerned the Lord helps me come back down. This last weekend we learned the other builder we were considering started pulling contracts. The people who told us this are now on the waiting list for phase 2 in our neighborhood. They also told us what they are paying for the same house we are building. We spent a little extra to get a lot with a water view. They are paying a lot more than we. Prices have increased that much. Right down the road from us, realtor.com has a house listed for 60k over what we are buying ours for. Scary that things have increased that much since we purchased. We have been greatly blessed.